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*wertykid
writes:I'm 20 and I have never had a serious relationship. Now, I'm scared because I'm getting older each day and I just can't find him. Boys/men aren't interesting me at all because I can never seem to find anyone that has the same wave of thinking as I do. I am so frustrated and unhappy. What can I do? everyone else I see has a significant other and I'm still single. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): You should hang out in places where you can find guys with your values and interests. By the way I'm 28, and I got into my current relationship at your age 20. It has not turned out to be the best so far... I think at your age it would be better to play the field than to commit. This is what I wish I would have done.
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reader, thatonegirl11 +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Men can probably sense your exasperation and are put off by it. It often seems that when you are independent and don't need a relationship to keep you happy, the guys come around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Well, my first serious relationship was when I was older than you...a mistake.
My second was when I was even older...a mistake to some degree.
My third was when I was even older...definitely not a mistake.
Enjoy life, don't worry about it as much and it will eventually happen, DO THINGS YOU ENJOY AND THAT YOU MIGHT ENJOY with people who are your age or older, and you will find it.
By the way, not everyone you see has that special someone, and a lot of them that say they do have great anxiety about their "special" someones because they aren't so special in many ways.
You will have plenty of time to make mistakes.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 October 2010):
 You're still young and have plenty of time. The best things you can do are go places where you will meet people. Join clubs. Join a gym. Become a regular somewhere. Start a study group. Take up a new hobby. Sign up for an online dating site.
Really, you need to put yourself out there. Keep trying.
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