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writes: NOT Allowed to see my girl. What should I do?!?!?!Hi I'm 17 and my girl is 16, but only 9 months younger than me. Me and her have been dating for 8 months now and we're totally in love. Me and her have trust in each other; like we were bro and sis, but anyway it was really love at first sight. We have done everything together. She was my first and I was her first with sex and a lot of stuff. On New Year's Eve at night time her mom was at work and wasn't due back til 8 the next morning. Her 20 year old sis was babysitting her, and her sis asked if I wanted to come over and watch the ball drop with them. I said sure and went over there. Well her sis left us alone to go hang with her friends. Well, we were 2 teenagers left alone. She asked if I wanted to go to her room to watch cartoons with her and I said yeah. Well one thing led to another and we started to have sex. She was on top of me when her mom came in. It was so embarrassing (Let me tell you about her mom real quick - nobody likes her, she is the most hated woman in the town. She likes no men cause she has been married 3 times ). Anyway I got kicked out of their house in my boxers and was told never to see her again. Well its been 4 months and we're still together behind closed doors. We sneak and see each other once a month and she at least tries to call me once a day. It's killing me not being able to be with her cause we love each other a lot. It's hurting us both and her sis is the one that is helping us see each other is moving. What should we do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2006): Well you two are still too young to get jobs and move out together. So unless you two somehow get it through to her mom, you're pretty much stuck in your situation for the time being.
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reader, eï? Sophie eï? +, writes (11 April 2006):
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Well firsty, having sex at this age is perfectly normal, theres nothing wrong with it as long as your having 'safe sex'. On the other hand, it could be fairly destressing walking in on your daughter and her boyfriend having sex and extremely embarrassing from you. Oviously don't do anything to make this situation get any worse, talk to your girlfriend if you can, you havent done anything wrong so far, mayb she could talk to her mum, so you both could see eachother again, thats the only thing i can think of. If your seeing her behind her mums back that really will make things alot worse if her mum finds out. Hope this helps x
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