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writes: From time to time I find my girlfriend really irritating and childish, to the point where I find it hard too speak to her or text her long texts. Is this normal?Other times i'm fine but i've noticed a pattern I get fed up of her for a few days then it goes and its perfect. Is it mood?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): seems you are very quick to lay blame,it takes 2 people to create an argument.you should try to resolve it almost instantly dwelling on things only make matters worse and this puts a strain on the relationship,also they say do not go to bed on an argument,work and respect each others wishes even compromise if need be,just remember why you got together firstly, good luck
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 It's normal that people in a relationship get annoyed with each other from time to time.
I can't answer your question of you getting fed up with her is connected to your mood or her mood though. There are two possibilities:
a) she is behaving a bit childish and you get fed up with her and she tries to correct her behavior
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b) you get fed up with her, calm down after a couple of days and then it doesn't seem so bad.
Try figuring out what exactly it is about her that you find irritating/childish and talk with her about it in a nice way without pointing fingers. I'm sure there are a few things she gets annoyed at about you as well, because nobody is perfect =)
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 We women are complicate, we have hormonal changes due to our period that make us feel hyper sensible sometimes of like crying and so on, u should try to be patient if u really love her and then we'll see waht happens, you may also consider if she has alcohol abuse problems, eating disorders or emotional problems to decide if you can help her, as regards pm syndrome try to be caring and lovely so she feels better you sould algo take her to her gp to check if she's ok sometimes when we're ill we feel like crap and depressed without knowing why and treat people we love in an awful way, try to help her if u really love her
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