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writes:Help needed,I've been marrige for 11years now and was with my husband for 8years before marrige. We have two children together. I'll releationship is great, we share alot of time together, but something is missing cause I don't feel as close to my husband as I should. Some days he can really get on my nerves or his response to me makes me feel as if he's yelling at me. This is the problem I ran into one of my old boyfriend and we begin to talk on the phone. Later, our relationship start getting serious, were I was lying to my husband to spend time with this other man. We have share sexual moments with each other several times. Now, I have strong feelings for him and I can't stop seeing him. This other man is always telling me to work things out with my husband for my kids, but I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 Nobody can really advise you what to do in this situation, you have cheated on your husband with another man, that act alone will and has seriously complicated your life and that of your children and your husband. Before you make any big decisions, are you sure this man you are having an affair with really wants to be with you on a full term basis? If he's telling you to work things out with your husband, he may be trying to push you away after having his way with you.
All marriages get stale and it's easy to stray what with todays technology mobile telephones and the internet.
Think seriously about what you are doing and maybe think of ways to save your marriage for the sake of your kids and your husband.
AE xxx
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