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Someone said that he was using me for sex

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Question - (29 November 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2006)
A female , *hatemylife900 writes:

i have a boyfriend, its been almost 1 week since we started dating and he says he loves me and isnt using me for sex but then again he acts like it and someone said that he was...what should i do? should i beleive him??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006):

girl if you put out after one week the anwser is yes then if he truly loves you not to blow your bubble but one week is not alot of time to know any thing about him or him to you need to get to know each other first puppy love is akiller think a while before you comment to having sex it adds alot of pressure and too teen boys dont know about love been there done that think first

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A female reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (30 November 2006):

Ivanna22 agony aunthang out with him and DON'T hook up. If he can just hang out with u without hooking up then he really likes speding time with u. Try doing that. If he keeps asking to have sex and u say no, and he gets angry at u and says he has to leave, then he is just using you. Hang out with him and if he ask to have sex tell him u can't cuz ure on ur period, if he says he has to leave and he seems to just be making an excuse then he might just be all about the sex.

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A male reader, Elmo Guy +, writes (29 November 2006):

It all depends on how long you have known the guy, before you were dating. But my best guess is if he just asked you out a week ago and youve had sex with him he isn't telling you he loves you, he loves his penis and he is going to do whatever it asks him to just like all of us men seem to do. If a man truly loves a woman he himself becomes a woman. If we truly love you we will do whatever you ask.

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