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So why is everyone having such a problem with the age gap?

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Question - (9 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right.

I'm 17 and my boyfriend's 24. We have a small age difference of 6.5 years, which is nearly always commented on.

My beau and I have no problem with it; we are of a similar maturity and we're very close.

So why is everyone having such a problem with the age gap? I know married couples with a lot more than 6.5 between them!

Can anyone shed some light on this? It's immensely frustrating!

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A female reader, LauraE United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

People comment because it can be a big gap at your age. Maybe they know other cases where it has been a problem. But people vary so much, that it's never fair to make sweeping judgements. Unfortunately, people do tend to think that they know better than everyone else, so feel it's OK to comment about things that are none of their business. If you are happy then that's all that matters.

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A female reader, sheyla United States +, writes (10 July 2007):

Dont dont matter what people say what counts is the love ok i have a same promblem but a little different

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A female reader, am i alone? United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

am i alone? agony auntI totally agree with the above writer!!:D Im 18 ( 19 in half a year,good while away) and my boyfriend is 25 2 months before im 19,only ONE of his friends commented on the age gap but my bf reassured him that we love eachother and get on sooooo well and thats all that matters.no one else matters in YOUR relationship pet,just you and your fella!! good luck and i hope you are both very happy :D:D xxxxx

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