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writes:Hello, I am a sophmore in high school and I'm really confused about what I want right now. I've liked this girl in my grade since December. She's so great, she's nice, sensitive, pretty and she treats me right. I told her how I felt and she said she liked me a lot too. But her parents don't think she's mature enough for a relationship so they're waiting until she turns 16, which is this August. After a few months, I've made peace with that, because I know someday we will be together (because we technically aren't together right now). But now I have another problem, I'm starting to get bored of this whole situation. It's not her at all, it's that the relationship isn't advancing at all, since we won't kiss or even publicly let people know of our "relationship", it just feels like we're going nowhere. I want to be with her so badly, but I can't get these bored thoughts out of my head. And whenever the thoughts return, my first instinct is to just end everything. It hurts me just thinking about this because I really do love her.I don't think there is much anyone can do to help me with this, I just felt like I needed to get everything out. But if anyone does have suggestions I'd be really glad. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 April 2008):
If you love her then you you'll wait for her.
But why aren't you having lots of fun with her as a friend? There is nothing to stop you hanging out with her, seeing films. etc.
Good Luck!! xx
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