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"Signs that your bf is no longer in love with you"

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Article - (17 October 2012) 5 Comments - (Newest, 30 October 2012)
A age 41-50, writes:

Seems like most of the questions or confusions of females from here are all about how to tell if their bf's loves them? or Does Their ex still Cares for them? Or how can you really tell when a relationship is really over? To Sum it all, Its all about How to Tell if your bf's no longer in love with you?

To help you end your confusion i have here a "Checklist or Winning signs to tell your bf is no longer in love with you"

or(Losing interest)

1. Time. If he cant spend the amount of time he used to spent with you, its a sure sign his pulling back a little. Its called break it to her gently sign..

2. He will tell you he loves you more often, but can't be with you.

He has some where else to go.(If you love someone you want to be with them more than anything unless its between life and death situation)

3. He cant call you or text you 'coz his busy or he forgot to do so.

I mean seriously?? Busy is another word for an asshole...

It takes a minute to text and call. Forget? really? you forgot the one whom you shared intimate moments with? Tell it to the marines...

4. His o.k disappointing your expectation.

Because if you mean the world to him he will always see to it that at least he meets your expectation. Not all the time but at least will consider your feelings.

5. If he don't contact you for a week, two, three or a month or so. 'Coz if he loves you and still have interest it would not take that long.. he'll be crazy Not to.. But since he can.. Time to face it his no longer in love and have lose his interest.

6. If you catch him looking for a female friend online or talking to his ex gf, girl your not good enough for him anymore so he starts looking for someone else.

So are you still in a dream land or my 5 signs have given you a more realistic answer to your confusion. Sometimes were just so blinded by baby i love you lines, your so pretty, ill marry you someday.. but is he really making an extra effort to those words he say?? Remember words without action is empty.

Any actor can deliver those lines even with tears. I hate guys who use tears to make their lies appears so real. But then their action doesn't support their words..

But on the other hand, its still our choice whether to buy those lies and continue to ask and confuse ourselves. The truth is men are so easy to read, there's no confusion about their actions.

You just have to learn to accept when they start to lose interest, Its really Over.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2012):

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Hey guys, thank you... I'm actually planning to write a book about players and jerks. hopefully plans will push through.

The book is all about women empowerment, prevention on being a victim, knowing all the signs, tips how to be happy being a single, and waiting for the right one..

Thank you if you like My How'To's definitely this will be included in my upcoming plans... again thank u so much..

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A female reader, jade152 United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2012):

I have to agree with all of the points raised but they are the end of the road signs. Firstly they start to shy of sex or complain its not exciting enough. With men in general their love glands are in between their legs. The first sure sign is always the sex thing or they want a quickie or lose their passion lots of clues that you pick up on as you get more experienced.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2012):

you are amazing about that, because i thought my bf was cheating on me, but after reading that it made me think and i mean a lot of thinking, so really think you so much.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2012):

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thank you, abella.. coming from you very i'm flattered.

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A female reader, Abella United States +, writes (17 October 2012):

Abella agony auntThis is a really good article.

I am looking back over the past and trying to think of anything you forgot and I have to say you have really nailed some of the truly clear signals.

When a guy really cares he goes out of his way to ensure he is there for you. When he no longer cares then any ill-defined excuse on his part will suffice (in his opinion)

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