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female
age
41-50,
*bradley
writes:i was told that my boyfriend stoped caring about me 4 months ago by a guy that works with my boyfriend and he is going to breack up with me and move away in aug and he is going to let me know a month ahead and i ask him and he says no. then 3 weeks later i looked through his phone and i read a text to his x talking about sex and she text him saying tease your women is at home and he text shes going bye bye. i ask him and he says its a joke. last nite i ask him if i shut my mouth couse i been on him for the last 3 weeks and he dosnt like that if we can save this and he kind of loud says who says were breaking up. im going crazy and dont know what to do.i do know he isnt cheating on me.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Wait, is your bf the father of his ex's child, or is his ex's bf the father of her child?
Idk if he's planning on dumping you or not, but I wouldn't be with a guy that was joking about dumping me to some girl.
It shows immaturity.
And an immature and mature person really don't get along. My former high school teacher will tell you that he has seen many marriages where one partner is miserable because the other one is so immature.
He obviously likes hitting on her (ie the jokes about you to her and other stuff that he has said to her) BUT if she and her new bf have a kid together, he knows that he has no chance with her.
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reader, bradley +, writes (22 April 2009):
bradley is verified as being by the original poster of the question his x has a boyfriend and the mom of his child. me talking about it every day is pushing him away. why would he tell me no to everything if he is going to do it. are there guys out there like that. and are there guys out there that do this
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (20 April 2009):
He shouldn't be making such jokes with his ex. Jokes like that will only lead his ex on. Why is he trying to lead her on?
Break up with him first, before he does it to you. Clearly his ex is more important. I think he wanted to break up with you, but now that you have brought it up, this is causing him to have to wait more.
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