A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well I'm in a sexual friendship with this guy friend of mine and we're both the same age. I've developed feelings for him, very strong ones, and of course I express them because I want to be honest and open with him. Though I do respect his desires so I keep the intensity level of my coveting to a minimum because I think that's what he wants. Well lately I've been wondering how he feels about me and I know I should ask him, but I first would just like some verification from some readers out there, possibly from a guy's perspective? He's been doing some things lately such as:1) Some days he texts me for hours on end, I mean 6 hours of continuous texting.2) He's asked me to stay the night so we could cuddle. Of course we had sex, yet he really urged me to cuddle with him afterwards for a good while. We also watch movies and laugh and joke for hours after sex too.3) He invites me over to hang out with him possibly 2-3 times a week.4) He looks at me funny sometimes nowadays, I mean I catch him just watching me.5) He's been acting odd lately, it's cute, but he just acts very...I guess you could only say silly. Lame word I know, but the only one that fits.I know these signs sound kind of vague, but compared to how things used to be, it seems to me that he's giving me more attention then a sex buddy should receive. What signal is he trying to send me? Or is there no signal and I'm completely imagining things?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): You have two options- ask him if he sees you two in a relationship, or if he just wants sex. If it's just about sex, then don't let him text you so long or be clingy. If he wants a relationship and you do too, go for it!
Just make sure he isnt using you as someone to have a "pretend relationship" with. Either you two are together, or not.
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