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Should we be less rough with sex?

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Question - (7 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2008)
A female Bahamas age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, well I recently started having sex and i thought because i'm not use to it that's why i get soar but last time i realised that it was more than a bruise and i tore the rim of my vagina and i realised that's what it was the other times.. so please can you tell me why i keep tearing.. and it's always in the direction toward my ass.. should we be less rough?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008):

it feels better d faster and rougher we do it.. and he's like the energiser bunny.. so.. i'm not sure if to just deal with the tearing because i don't feel it during the sex only after.. is it worth it? could it turn into something serious if we keep going at it so hard? or enjoy it and deal with the after effects?

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntThere is being "vigorous" as we call it LOL, and being too vigorous. Not good. Fiona.

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntBlimey! You two must have been rough! Not had that problem myself. But consensual sex should not hurt either of you, least of all as bad as this. Take it a bit easier I would say. Fiona

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