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writes:My ex-fiance broke up with me about a year ago, and just recently i just found out that she was asking about me, if i was dating or still single. I was shocked to hear about that because i never thought to hear from her again, but i can honestly say i still have feelings for her and i would love to talk to her again. I recently got a call from my sister which she is still good friends with and poured her heart out, she said she thinks she made a mistake and she always thinks about me and misses me a lot, she also told my sister that she was going to call me but she hasn't had the courage but she said she will call me. As you all can imagine i didn't know what to say i was so shocked.I also have to say the reason we broke up was that i was immature and this break up really has made me grow up, and i know she realizes that, and she mentioned that to my sisteralso we had many issues trust issues i never cheated but i lied a lot. But now i do not know how to go about this situation i still love her and have so much feelings for her as does she i believe, but now i do not know how to go about this situation what should i do? how should i go about this situation? should i try to contact her or should i just let her call me? i also don't want to be let down i am worried because i do not want to be let down if she never calls me, if she never calls me it would hurt so much but i have to be strong and get over that possibility if it occurs. But what should i do? should i call her or just wait till she calls me?
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (1 June 2011):
 I would wait until she makes the first move. When she gets up that courage she will contact you.
I am sure she thought of the heart to heart with your sister would get back to you but either way by acting proactively you may put your sister's relationship with this person in a tight spot.
Now is a good time to remember the relationship and make sure you have your house in order. Not many people get second chances and out of that few, fewer still get advanced notice and some time to prepare. Use it wisely my friend.
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