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writes: I was with my ex for a year. We broke up 4 months ago. It's been hard for me. I wish that I could have did things different. There was no cheating or nothing like that. We just had problems like any other couple have. I would lash out at him alot at the end because I didn't know how to talk to him about things I didn't like because I was afraid that I would push him away.When I see him, he stares at me alot. I know that I pushed him away with the way I treated him. He told me that he still had feelings for me and misses me. Does that mean that he still wants to be with me? Everytime I turn around he's in my face trying to have a conversation with me. Do you think that it's possible that he think he made a mistake for leaving? Help please! Should I try to talk to him again?
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reader, 19agegap +, writes (27 May 2008):
as long as there is love...things can be worked out....it is never too hard if you truly love each other. have a set of core values you want to keep...then try to compromise the rest
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): It sounds like it is possible he may want to get back together, but you will have to ask him and reassure him that you have made some changes, but more than that you have to show him you have changed.....and he you.
Learn how to fight fair, there are many self help books on the market that talk about dealing with issues in a relationship.....find one you like and start reading.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (27 May 2008):
 I think that you should try to have a conversation with your ex. It seems like he's eager to patch things up and there's nothing wrong with talking if you're interested in trying to reconcile the problems.
Assuming that you guys decide to try again, I highly recommend that you both figure out ways to communicate issues between you, otherwise you're probably going to have the same issues again.
Good luck!!
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