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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have know this girl for three months now. I had a feeling that she liked me as more than a friend. Although we had known each other two months, we had only met twice since the first time we had met at the time I asked her to join me for a walk and a meal (I suggested that it could be lunch, wasn't specific). She didn't accept, though did not refuse as such.We have met twice since, and but even though she turned me down before I still get a feeling that she might see me as potentially more than a friend. Possibly I scared her a little by asking her too soon.Should I trust my feelings on this, or should I just try to be pragmatic? I have never felt quite as sure as this that someone might like me.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Neferterie +, writes (29 March 2009):
 humm...this is alittle tough...Okay if I were you this is what I would do:Just meet up with her as friends, nothing more, for awhile (a month perhaps?) but keep in constant contact (text, email, call, show up with a coffee etc.). Do things that she'll remember, like bring a umbrella to her work place for her (when it was fine in the morning then it rains suddenly in the afternoon) and keep doing things like that.Then one day call her and tell her you need to talk to her about something, and could you come by and talk to her about something thats beginning to worry you? Go to her place with some food (nothing big and heavy, but light) and start off by thanking her, she's the best etc. And then when you sit down turn your head away slightly, and to a slight downward angle, and say something like this:"Well my problem is all about this girl, she's everything I've ever wanted, sexy as hell, smart, and I feel so natural around her but I dont think she thinks of me that way.....what do you think? What should I do?"she then might give you some ideas (if she does then do exactly what she says...but to her)I dont know if this is helpful or not but it might work! Good luck and keep us informed!
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