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Should I tell my husband his mother is pressuring me to have a child?

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Question - (18 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2011)
A female Nepal age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I am married since three years and we have healthy sex life we understand each other and both of us work in good organization. I am 26 and my hubby is 33. Me and my hubby have agreed that we will not have child till we have sound economic environment.

But the problem is my mother in law always insist me to have a child as soon as possible. She is giving kind of mental torture, I dot know with whom to share all these problem. If I tell to my husband then there will be big mess in the family.

Please help me. DO i need to bear a baby or what? I am mentally disturbed.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (18 March 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntHow refreshing...people actually responsibly planning when to start a family! Next time the mother-in-law brings up a baby tell her to talk to your husband about it.

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (18 March 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntTell your husband what his mom is saying to you. Just be like guess what your mom said to me today. And keep telling him, until he starts to get the picture of how much she pressure she is actually putting on you. It is much better for you guys to handle his mom together than for you to try and handle it alone.

Then you can either stick to your original plan, or maybe even decide to go ahead and try for a baby sooner.

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