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kizzy
writes:ok so me and this girl was talking one day at the mall and me and my friend got into a conversation with her about how nice her shoes were. when we got in the middle of our conversation she said she thought i was sexy (i thought she was too) but my friend has problems with gay people (i don't), she thinks they are nasty. so when she had said that i just laughed it off like i thought she was just kiddin but she said she was being serious and that she was bi. my friend just made a face where it looked like her eyes were about to pop out of her head. i love hangin around my friend how do i tell my friend that i have fantasies about having sex with other girls? i dont want to lose her (i dont have sexual feelings or anything like that) towards my friend and is the feelings of being with another woman normal when im not gay? Reply to this Question |
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reader, kizzy +, writes (16 April 2008):
kizzy is verified as being by the original poster of the question i think you guys are right but i am still unsure and scared about telling her that i think im bi and i feel she deserves to know bcuz if she dont she will really be mad at me.
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reader, cheetahh  +, writes (14 April 2008):
If you really feel you have to tell that to your friend, try a subtle aproach...Say something like: "I'm that kind of person that thinks that love has no sex or age...I wouldn't be ashamed if I fell for another girl..." Anyway, I really think that it's ok for people our age have those kind of fantasies. You are still building your character so, I guess it's ok to try and have new experiences. Or maybe you haven't yet discoreved your true orientation...It happens a lot.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (14 April 2008):
 There is no reason to tell her anything. You should call the girl that was hitting on you if you want to hook up and hook up. From your friends point of view gay vs. bi doesn't matter. You will do members of the same sex which is the gender she belongs to not that she should care. As long as you are respecting her boundaries. These matters can be very complicated. Sometimes a more hands on approach is needed. I noticed you are from the states as am I. Depending on your local I would be willing to selflessly come over and sit the three of you down and arbitrate.
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