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writes:im 22 years old and ive been dating my boyfriend for just over a month now and I really like him, he thinks ive had sex in the past before, he just thinks I have because of my age but I havnt.im not ashamed that im still a virgin at age 22 but im scared that my boyfriend will not want me any more because of it.he is also a couple of years older than me as well so I know he as had a lot of experience.should I tell him or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone for adviceive decided to tell him, I now know if he really wants to be with me it shouldnt bother him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Women find lots of past sexual experience attractive. Men do not.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Don't be afraid at all to tell him. Chances are, the opposite effect will happen to him, that that will make him like you even more. For some odd reason, many guys don't mind sleeping around, but it's a bit more special for them to be with a virgin. Plus, it makes them feel really good to know that the girl has "saved" herself for him.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 I would tell him because when it does happen the first couple of time will be uncomfortable and he will need to know to take it easy. Also to use lots of lube. Personally I would be quite shocked and excited that you are willing to lose it to me. I'm sure he'll love the thought of being your first time. Although it's not the best physically the feeling you both get from it is amazing.
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