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writes:I got extrememly drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I do not even remember having sex with the guy, but he says we did, and I woke up naked so believe him. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 18 months and I have never done anything like this before! Should I tell him what happened?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): u should always be in control of urself while drunk, now to think that u cheated but dont remember i honestly think it will haunt u down! u should confess and ask for another chance because it will come and byte u in the ass and will cause ur boyfriend much more pain if he finds out about this from someone else and not u
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice! I guess all of us have our skeletons in the closet that we do not need to pull out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): I agree with Irish49. I would normally say differently but on this occasion in this particular circumstance I would say leave it alone, forget it and get on with your life BUT make sure you really do lern from this mistake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): Like many people out there, I've been tipsy many times or had one too many, but I can tell you that even though I did act a little silly and crazy, I always had it under control and knew 'exactly' what I was doing. My viewpoint: Being drunk is no excuse for allowing this to happen in the first place. Telling your bf what 'could've' happened will create deep pain and cause this relationship to 'blow' sky high. I am going to go against my better judgement and tell you if he never learns about this from anyone else, and if you learned from this experience, and you made a pact to yourself, to never, ever allow yourself to get into this predicament ever again....then don't tell him. It sounds like you really love your bf and your guilt /shame is eating away at you. You have to live with yourself. So why inflict all this pain, on him. What's done is done and you learned from it. It really wont do any good to tell him now. At your age, I would think you can learn to handle your drinking enough that this should never, ever happen again. When a woman wakes up in the morning, there are signs that she definitely knows that indicate she's had sex. Are you sure it even got that far? I suggest you stop the drinking and start focusing on being a better,more loving gf to your man, hun. Take care
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