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Should I tell my best friend I love him?

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Question - (22 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *MLBabyDoll writes:

My friend is 15 n im 13 now, we had a thing for each other last year but when be asked me out, i got nervous and said 'no' i feel really bad cuz i loved him and said no. We still love each other he has told me that he does and i'd love to be able to say it back i know we're just friends thats all we'll ever be, because i have a BF. i know this is wronge and everything but really need to get it out of my system. Any suggestions?

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntIf you really think you love him, then the first thing to do is to break up with your boyfriend because it wouldn't be fair for him for you to double play him.

Wait a while then, like two weeks. Then tell him. Pour your heart to tell him and tell him what you couldn't tell him before. Be brave and tell him everything. I don't think that friends is all you're going to be since he has told you he loves you (in an implied romantic way).

If you do start a relationship with him, please take it slow and don't rush just because of your hormones. Prove to every one that you're there because you love each other and not because of physical attraction. (I'm saying this cause I think he will want to be with you)

Now good luck and I hope that you do end up with him.

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A male reader, somerandomdude9999 United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

somerandomdude9999 agony auntThis is all up to you if you truely love him you should tell him but! If you do you should be CERTAIN! You love him over your boyfriend.

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