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writes:i have been seeing this guy for almost 8years, i saw the divorse degree, thats when we started being serious, i knew he use to go and see the son he had we his ex, i saw their wedding photos on webside with the same ex he was divorsed to, he did not even tell me they were seeing each other again .i broke up the relationship,without not even explaining why, he thinks i still dont know that they got married againhe still calls me and emails me, should i tell him the reason i left him, or should i just let him figure it out, i hate it when he pretend as if he did nothing wrong , i am the one who just broke up the relationship,and yes i have moved on with my life although iam not seeing anyone now.
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reader, angelfire1123  +, writes (20 March 2008):
If you have already moved on then just keep moving. If writing him an e-mail explaining things helps then do so, just don't forget why you broke it off. Maybe if you tell him then he'll stop calling and then you can really move on. And whatever you do don't look back. He's over and done.
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reader, maud +, writes (20 March 2008):
maud is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHI
i have sent him the photos that i downloaded and now iam waiting for him to call me regarding the photos.
although i dont feel like discussing this issue with him, i feel the answer is loud and clear, he loved his ex and he had to go backand pick up the pieces , he just wasn't brave enough to tell me.as much as i dont blame him for leaving me, he should have told me.
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reader, maud +, writes (20 March 2008):
maud is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice, I was just thinking that maybe one day he will have the nerve to tell me the truth, I am not looking forward to any relationship or friendship whatsoever, but I just wanted to give him a taste of his medicine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): I think everyone has a right to know why they've been broken up with, and its only fair. He's probably hurting too right now honey, and you've got to be honest and explain everything to him. I know that he hasn't been totally honest with you, but revenge isn't the best option.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): I would have to tell him the true reason why i had split up with him and then walk away. You say ou have moved on then the next time he gets in touch, tell him as it is. Then ask him not to get in touch again and you do the same. Move on.
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