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Should I tell him how I feel? Sooner or later, I'm going to explode!

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Question - (31 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *adydela writes:

Ok here is my problem, I met this guy, he was no ordinary guy. He was sweet and handsome. I really loved him. We were only friends, yes, I know but I never told him about this because I was soo sure that some day he would realize that I love him and he loves me. But one day I found out that he was with someone else and he tells me all day about how he loves her and how he stays up all night and talks to her. But when I found this out my heart ached a little so tell me...should I tell him how I feel because if I don’t I swear sooner or later I’m going to explode. Please help me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009):

well i dont thik you should tell em now i think you should tell him after he is broken up.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (31 July 2009):

No, wait until he's single again. But of course, don't tell him you're in love with him, just let him know that you're interested. He could think of you as just a friend and thinks that you feel the same way, so he's with someone else. You don't want to be the other woman who is telling a guy who is involved with someone else that you love them etc.

This is so cliche, but there's plenty of fish in the sea. There are plenty of sweet and handsome guys out there. Don't chase after a man that is in love with someone else. If you tell him this now, expect rejection...and that will hurt even more. Go out with other people and you may find what you're looking for.

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A female reader, Weeyin4UJT United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2009):

i think u should tell him how u feel and see wot happens.gd luk.xx

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