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writes: I met this guy through a friend 4 months ago, his friends told me that he liked me a lot, and I also felt that he was. The feeling was mutual. He's a really shy guy and doesn't really initiate things, him and I had something (I haven't slept with him yet) 3 months ago, and then I had to leave the country for 3 months. Now I'm back and i saw him a few days ago. He's apparently with a chick now(she wasn't there when I met her and I don't think they're officially a couple yet), he was really nice and was genuinely happy to see me. He acted like he still liked me a lot. Should I tell him how I feel about him, or pretend that I don't like him that way anymore since he has a chick?
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reader, GodofGraphics +, writes (19 February 2006):
 If he has gone out and found himself a girl, he might have lost his feelings for you. By telling him how you feel you will releave yourself of a huge burden, but you risk losing a friendship.You need to decide whether or not he is worth the risk, if the smallest chance of you and him together is worth being put on the table, at the risk of losing everything you 2 share, as friends.In the same situation, If i really liked him (or her in my case... ^_^) I would risk it for a chance at something great. If he says no, if he says he doesnt feel for you, it may hurt in time, but then you know he wasnt for you.Hope I have helped,GoG
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