Should I tell him about my past with this other guy?

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have been "talking" to a scorpio guy I like for a couple months now, but we aren't together in any way. We have hung out 3 times away from work, and we both have feelings for each other. Before me and him met, I had a sexual relationship with a gemini guy he does not get along with at all. Now that me and him are interested in each other, I don't know if I should tell him about this past. Me and this other guy haven't told anyone about our sexual thing, but im worried that his strong dislike for the person im now talking to will make him say something just to screw it up when he finds out im interested in his enemy. Im so confused now. What should I do? I'll also add that we all work together, so its not really avoidable.

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