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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have a friend, and from the beginning she and I sort of..."clicked". She and I had lots of things in common, felt really comfortable around each other, shared lots of things with each other because it just felt okay. We became best friends in a matter of months. She and I started liking each other and we talked about it. But. there's one small factor, she's 18 and I'm 14. Which, of course, is illegal. and my parents don't know I'm bisexual, so that doesn't help either. But I had really strong feelings for her, as I thought she did for me. So we agreed that she would wait for me, at least until I could talk to my parents about my sexuality and tell them what I wanted to do. She's very close to my aunt, who is raising me, so we thought that we would actually be able to go out sometime. But anyway, she promised me she'd wait for me. We were trying to drop hints to my aunt and grandparents, the ones raising me, about us "marrying each other". Like, she asked my aunt if she could ask for my hand in marriage and she "proposed" to me in Border's. And we kept on being close friends and everything, there was a sort of "long" period of time which we didn't see each other or communicated with each other THAT much. It was about a month, and when I was able to call her her and I asked her what was new she said "With my girlfriend", I thought she was joking so I didn't take it seriously, then she changed her relationship status on facebook as "in a relationship with ---". And of course, me being so into her I was very let down and sad. But then, I found out her girlfriend is even younger than me and after a month of being with her she(the girlfriend) gave her(my friend) a promise ring and 3 days later my friend gave her one too. I'm very scared, not only because my friend could get into serious trouble for being with a girl SO much younger than her, but also, I'm afraid she'll get hurt again. So, I'm unsure if I should talk to her, as in best friend to best friend, about everything. Or if I should just leave it at that. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso, in the "talking to her" part, I mean talking to her about how I feel about this whole situation between her and I.
But I'm not sure since she's in a relationship and all, she might take it as if I were trying to get in the way of her and her girlfriend...
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