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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Do I talk about whats upsetting me if there's nothing we can do about it ? How can she help me ?This is kinda the second part of a question I asked earlier. Her past is really really difficult for me to get over and for the first week it seemed to constantly be on my mind. I cried thinking about her at such a young age being taken advantage of, it worried me terribly. But Ive pushed passed that and we have discussed my issue a few times. I'm jealous of them, I'm ashamed of what others know and I'm having a hard time taking pride in us and what we do, or something. I don't know, but I know there's nothing that can be done about it now. Ive gotten to where I only think about it when something/anything reminds me and I'm hoping to push it away entirely.But When something does get me and I get butt hurt (sad) and/or real quite she notices. She will ask, whats wrong ? I see no point in talking about whats wrong, it will only serve to make things worse. So what do I do ? And once she realizes or guesses whats wrong she usually follows with How can I help ? I have no answers for these questions. I feel like Im ruining a relationship I really really want and I don't know why.
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