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writes: I've meet this great looking guy,he works at a club i go to as a barman,i went there other evening and when i went up to the bar his eyes lit up when he saw me. my friends started calling my name out when he came round to collect our glasses.so i think he knows i like him.i saw him again yesterday afternoon, he came up to me and asked how i was.then again when i left.i acted abit shy when he spoke to me,which i'm not really,should i make a move and ask him out,but dont want to feel silly if he turns me down,as i go to this club quite often.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): Well it is the 21st century and I don't see anything wrong in asking a guy out!!
But I would find out more about him - like if he has a g/f for starters... I know people who work in bars are always very friendly towards customers and you don't want to get that confused with that he has feelings for you either...
I mean at least that way you won't feel silly or get your heart broken....
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reader, pica +, writes (6 October 2006):
There's no real need to rush into asking him out if you can potentially see him regularly at his work. Get to know him first. Just chat, be friendly. In a short time it shold be clear if you've got potential - then think about taking it further. Sounds like you'd feel awkward asking him at the moment; if you get to know him it will be more natural to move things on.
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (6 October 2006):
 bide your time, if he like you, he will ask you out, and think what a fool you would feel,if he is in a relationship already. or if you did ask and he said no. you go to the club regularly remember you have to face him every time you go there. wouldn't it be better to wait. to be sure his mates aren't fooling around with you first,( men like to have a laugh at our expense) and he genuinely likes you.
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