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*udeywoodeyrocks
writes:my boyfriend has recently finished with me, but today he told me that he has made a big mistake, he said that he still loves me with all of his heart and that he would do anything to go back to how it used to be. he asked me if i still loved him and i replied, "i dont know", ive been called a slag, sad, and as many names as you can think of...but they dont bother me cus all i can think of is him. since then i havnt stopped listening to songs that remind me of him and how our love used to be. you see there has been a rumour going around that i like this other boy, i dont, but everyone and i mean everyone thinks i do.i really dont know what to do. do i take him back?signed; What Next? Reply to this Question
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reader, judeywoodeyrocks +, writes (30 April 2010):
judeywoodeyrocks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your answer, it was other people calling me names, not him...today at school, i gave him a gentle hug, and rested my head against his shoulders, and then you held me tighter, do i play hard to get from here?
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reader, princessofGod43  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 Sweetheart it could be as simply as him calling you names because of the rumors...but he still shouldn't have done that but if you think he is abusive towards you...then no don't take him back...if it was because he loves you and he felt hurt because of the rumors you guys really need to talk if you really love him...matters of the heart are very tricky because love is very hard to replace people we love should never be trown away loosely...and if he has a hard time giving his heart...then reconsider before letting him just walk away...we all have some sort of protection around and about our hearts...so if he only said nasty things to you surrounding these rumors...please you don't want to be on eharmony or plentioffish or some other dating site looking for love...find it in your backyard and grow it...God Bless you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 April 2010):
At your age, you are going to find that guys really aren't sure about what they want. Your ex isn't sure, which is why I don't think you should go back. He'll only leave again at some point, and you'll end up hurt once more. You don't make it clear who's calling you sad or a slag. If it's him, then don't go back, and even if it's not, don't go back. I think you would do better just to focus on yourself right now.
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