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Nana Ama
writes: I am a in a serious relationship and I love this guy so much but whiles i am in Ghana, he is in Canada. He promise me with a ring.He is going to be there for 3years and a year is almost gone.The relationship is still healthy I mean so much to him.In a nutshell we love ourself .But my friends want me to cheat on him since they beleive he will disappoint me as it has happened to them before.The pressure is too much please help me!!!! Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): If you really love each other then this time will pass and neither of you will cheat. so forget about listening to your so called friends and be patient. It will be worth it in the end.
take care
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (2 November 2007):
 I agree with Miss C, do not listen to your friends. If you love this guy and you are happy then you do what you think is best. Follow your heart and listen to that little voice in your head. It is called womens intuition and it is almost always right.
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reader, Miss C  +, writes (2 November 2007):
 Don't listen to your friends! Why on earth they would suggest cheating on him I don't know. They may have had negative experiences with guys in the past but that doesn't give them the right to assume that your guy will end up hurting you. Their hearts are probably in the right place but they're being very pessimisstic.
Yes 3 years is definitely a long time to wait but you've already survived a whole year. That is such an achievement and you are very brave! If you're in a healthy relationship with a guy who is crazy about you then it's worth it to wait those extra 2 years in my opinion. It's up to you whether you're willing to wait that long for him but don't let your friends influence your decision. Only you can make it so follow your heart! Good luck, Miss C xx
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