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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy at school. He was really nice to me and talked to me for hours every day. We got closer and closer. We would spent hours together. I always had this feeling he was a bit girly, but he was my first guy friend. People would always ask if I am his gf since we are so close.Later, he told me he was bi. But by that time, I already liked him. After a while, I told him, and he basically didn't feel the time. Our relationship got so bad where he stopped being friends with me for about couple months. We just acted like we don't know each other.Recently, he came back to being friends with me. I asked my other friends should I accept this friendship. They advised me too, so I kind of did. I am sure I don't like him as much anymore. But I think seeing him being intimate with a guy still makes me kind of sad... I don't know what to do..Should I still maintain being friends? How do I get over this feeling? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): It's hard to just be friends when really you would like it to be something else. Stay on friendly terms with him, but try not to see too much of him, and move your thoughts onto other things.
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