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female
age
36-40,
*ady87
writes:hi i am a 23 year old female and i have been with my current partner for 3 years we have broken up two or three times over silly things general couple arguments etc but also i have lost intrest in sex the last time we got back together the sex was better not as good as it has been with past boyfriends but i love him we had a son last year but now i am losing intrest again i think about sex all the time it is driving me crazy i just dont want anything with him but i love him and i dont want to hurt him i dont know if this means i dont love him anymore? am i scared to hurt him? i dont know please tell me your experiences and opinions we are getting married the end of the year and i dont know if its what i want, once when we broke up i had sex with another man and it was incredible i thought it was only sex there fore a father for my kids is more important than sex but now i wonder is sex what makes a good relation ship?
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reader, Limpet  +, writes (8 December 2010):
 I can totally relate. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years nearly and I love him to bits. But since we moved in together in September we've had sex maybe 3 or 4 times? I feel terrible about it, I know he wants to but I can't even bring myself to pretend.
I never thought that sex was that important and although I don't hugely miss it (maybe because I've never had an orgasm) But I keep thinking about doing it (with a friend of his I've only met a couple of times!). I know my boyfriend doesn't think a relationship is a 'relationship' without it...
Sorry, I wish I could give you some advice, but all I can do is let you know you're not alone?
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