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41-50,
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writes:I started seeing my best friend whom I fell in love with though it never worked out the way we would have liked we are still friends but its not the same there is a point to me telling you this. . . Anyway that's not my question. . . she told me her biggest secret that she had a termination before we met she only told me because she totally freak out on me one night when the condom burst but only myself and her other female friend knows but the other day someone told me again out of spite and I was gutted for my friend that other people had been told this and that it had came from her female friend who claims to be her best friend.What should I do? Do I tell my friend that she has been telling someone else I am worried that she will think I am stirring it between them and it back fires on me as we arnt as close as we use to be but I am scared this really hurts my friend I love so much plus I am also a friend of her friend but I love this person and would never repeat that to anyone no matter what.Its not that she would think it was me because I know she wouldnt think that I would repeat that but I don't want her to get hurt if other people find out.Should I just speak to her friend and tell her that repeating this was wrong?MOD NOTE: the following part was submitted seperately and combined here:Is it possible she wont leave him for me because she is scared to leave her comfort zone she says she loves me but she is confused as to what she should do and needs space, but wont leave me alone.We have been sleeping together on and off for over a year this cant go on its not fair to her bf or me.How do win someones heart like this? What should I do?
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reader, Denizen +, writes (28 August 2009):
 Perhaps she is looking for more commitment from you. Could you see yourself getting into a long-term relationship with her? It doesn't have to be marriage these days.
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