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Should I stay with my present boyfriend or go back to the ex?

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Question - (25 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i split up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago however we promised to stay friends but my feelings are stronger then that. i few weeks ago he told me that he still cared about me and that he wanted to get back with him but then i didnt know what to do and i went away for 2 weeks i come back to only being told he has a new girlfriend!

so i didnt want to talk ti him i felt like my heart had been torn apart. as an attempted to get over him i got in a new relationship and its all going great. when it got back to my ex that i had a new boyfriend he rung me asking about it i said yes and asked about his new girlfriend he is deny having one. but i hear from the girls friends that they were together. then he told me that he really cares for me and wants to give it another go. but i dont no what to do i still love him but scared of getting hurt yet again should i stay with mey present boyfriend or go back to the ex???

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A female reader, elsie United Kingdom +, writes (30 April 2007):

elsie agony auntjust wondering if you told your ex you were going away to clear your head?if he didnt hear from you maybe he thought hed go with someone new to get you out of his mind?he has denied having a girlfriend but like most men hes scared of how youll react.i dont believe he deserves to be called a liar???the fact that ALL of your question centres around your ex is the answer id say.you still care a lot for him.youve hardly mentioned your current guy????????

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A male reader, lupa-k United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2007):

Only you can decide that one to be honest. But at the end of the day, you need to remember that your ex seems to be playing quite a few mindgames with you over this other new girl, and to decide whether you really can trust him.

Also, with these feelings for your ex, is it fair to continue the relationship with your new bloke? Because its not really fair to just use him as a pawn with your ex

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007):

hun listen to your heart do what feels right. just remember why you broke up with this bloke though in the first place you know?

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