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writes:Looking for help. My girlfriend cheated on me at a party or to be more precise, with her ex while she was getting ready for it. I found out, after her friend had walked in and caught them and my gf told her not to tell me. I confronted her, and at first she denied it but when I said that her friend had told me she said it was true. Being a guy of course I went and put him on the floor and in hospital (which I feel bad about now) but I felt good at the time I've stuck with her up to now because I'm not sure if I can trust her, she regrets that night with her ex but now she won't go out with me to pubs or clubs saying she would rather spend the time with another guy, (he is a low-life local drug dealer) and when we've been around town he has spoken to her and brushed her hair and stuff like that infont of me! So....... I put him in hospital. Also I got arrested for sticking up for her, and she didn't even give a statement. We've been together for 2 years and i don't know whether I should stick with her or leave her, especially as my high school crush and I have started talking to each other down the pub and she likes me and vice versa so anything would be helpful please guys. Thankyou all xxx BMWABH
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): dude what she is doing is honestly messed up. If i were you i would leave her because it sounds like she is just going to get you in a lot of trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006): Nah dude, f**k that..
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reader, BIGmanwithaBIGheart +, writes (8 March 2006):
BIGmanwithaBIGheart is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou to all that helped, i have now finished with her, STD's are pretty much all clear though still waiting for some results, and I am currently seeing my High School crush. Once again thanx guys!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): why would you put these other men in the hospital and yet stick with her? She is the one that you "should" be able to trust, not them. What would you do if you got married? lock her in the basement to keep her from messing around? she is the problem, not them. There is and always will be temptation, you are supposed to be able to trust that your partner will not succomb to it, she has already proven she can't be trusted so what are you still there for?
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (6 March 2006):
 You sound far too nice and too sweet to put up with her rubbish. Please find someone who treats you with more respect. There are so many lovely, nice, smart, honest girls out there so you don't need to settle for someone who lies and cheats.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2006): I vote to leave her.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Oh bigmanwithabigheart, you really need to not be such a big man with a big heart, she is using you and you know it.
Ditch her and do it fast, she will only get you locked up for assault as you will inevitably hurt her ex really badly and trust me it will be you doing the time.
Get your self down to the local std clinic and have some tests, if he is a drug user he may have at some time been an IV user so may have hep Bor C, get your self checked out also clears you for the next girlfriend as you wont want to give her anything.
Im sure she has not passed any nasties on but you are better to be safe.
Ask this new girl out and take it from there, dont go back and dont look back.
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Right I'll keep this one short and simple:Can't beleive your still with herLeave her NOW!!!Run as fast as you can!!And NEVER turn back!
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reader, jackie_ny +, writes (6 March 2006):
i definitely think you should break up with her. She cheated on you and although i think people can change she disrespects you to your face. The fact that your even thinking about your high school crush as an option shows your not to sure about her yourself. I think you deserve better and deserve a chance with somebody who will truly value and love you...Hope this helps but remember at the end just listen to your heart.
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