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writes:I know two guys. I've known them both for roughly a year and a half. One of them I see practically every day, and the other one, I'm in a long distance relationship with.The long distance relationship is a good one because we don't fight too much and he's such a sweet guy. The other one is my best friend and has been since I met him.However, I've been dating the guy I'm in a long distance relationship for ten months, and we talk everyday, but when I had a couple days away from him, it gave me time to think about everything.I'm in love with not just my boyfriend, but I'm also in love with my best friend. I've yet to tell my best friend, but I plan on telling him soon because it seems like he feels the same.But I'm not sure what I do. Should I stay with my boyfriend or get with my best friend. I'm caught in the middle between someone who is able to see me every day, and someone I won't get to see every day for another 3 months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): Same situation. Only reason why im still with my bf is becuz my bff likes me and another girl at the same time. But b careful. If u guys break up it will ruin yur friendship
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reader, Miss williamz  +, writes (1 June 2008):
 I was in the same situation as your now.but i choose wisely and upto today am proud of my decision. We tend to look far and yet what we need is right next to us. What i can tell you go for your bestfriend.even though you argue or fight alot thats worth it unlike the one whose far you dont truly know his true color and dont get me wrong am not try to discourage you from it. I talk to my boyfriend for a year before i realised am missing alot.like i told you Why look far any yet your happiness is near you. But dont make a mistake of keeping them both
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