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writes:Hey everyone,Iv been seeing my boyfriend a little over 4 months now and he has been an amazing boyfriend to me and he loves me but I 'like' him I don't love him..4 months as many of you would say is too soon to proclaim love I agree but sometimes you just know it so I guess that's how it is for my boyfriend..I just don't give my 100% in the relationship,I'm short tempered and he deals with all of this because he wants it to work,probably I behave like this because I don't want this as much as he does..What do I do tho?I know I want to stay in the relationship for a few months to see if I wil grow to love him?what do u think? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 August 2013):
 its been 4 months and you are not feeling "it" I don't think you need to stay any longer... in fact, I think staying with him is not fair to him... the longer you stay the more in love he will fall and the harder the break up will be on both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2013): Usually by now you would know... if he is feeling so much more strongly than you, he could end up getting hurt if you continue further as your feelings may never develop. You can't force yourself to love someone, no matter how great they look on paper - if the heart doesn't feel it, perhaps release this fish and find another one that you can be totally heads over heels in love with too.
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reader, miss_nancy183 +, writes (14 August 2013):
 I think that if you know you have no feelings of 'love' for this guy then don't leave it too long before deciding whether to break things off or not. It sounds like he is really trying and relationships only work if there is mutual effort. Communication is key, I suggest you have a chat to him and say that you have strong feelings for him but you think you may need to slow things down to see how you both truly feel about each other.
I hope this helped. :)
Sorry if it didn't and you think it's crappy, I'm still new at this advice thing.
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