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writes:Hey everyone :)Just looking for some advice.......... Have been seeing a guy for about 2 months now and I really like him :)However he has gone away for work for about 3 months. Before he left it was still not clear to me where I stood with him and I hadn't told him how I feel.We've spoken on the phone/emailed every couple of days since he's been gone yet iv found myself missing him more than I thought I would and realized I like him much more than I thought I did.I was thinking of sending him a quick email today just to say Hi, I do miss spending time together and I do like you :)....What do you think is this a good idea?. I guess the only thing stopping me is the fear hes not that much into me and won't reply, and things will be awkward when he returns (we work together). But on the other hand I'm thinking, if I don't just go for it and tell him, he (and I) will never know! Thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Aemita  +, writes (2 August 2012):
 Honey, GO with it! Send him the sweet email and wait for a reply!
Don't live your life with 'what if' hanging across your head! Life is meant to be lived without regrets.
SO what if he doesn't feel the same? That's an irrational fear. If he doesn't like you, at least you know, where the both of you stay, and can move on!
If he does indeed like you, won't you be happy that instead of wasting time debating pros and cons, you will actually spend time with him?
Life is short, don't let insecurities make it so muuuuuch shorter than it already is!
Take care dear! ^_~
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reader, oldbag +, writes (2 August 2012):
 Hi
Go for it, just a simple 'I miss spending time with you' you is fine.As you say you will never know if you don't take that step
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