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Should I risk it to become more than mates ?

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Question - (7 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *igtime987 writes:

I'm desperately in love with a girl and can't get her out of my mind! We've been great freinds for 3 years and I dont think she knows how much i like her! should i risk it and try and become more then mates? How can I do this?

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A male reader, bigtime987 United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2007):

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We're really good mates though, know everything about each other! we're so close that it was really weird the first time i thought about being more than mates with her!! This is more than any normal crush! I'd prefer to slowly tell her, with lots of little hints. How should I do this??

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (8 June 2007):

nologo agony auntYes, I think you should take the risk.

Even though it may be just a crush now.

Three years way back you didn't have these feelings for her.

So this is something new to you - tell her how you like her.

Look for the right time and place before saying that to her.

Actually I don't believe this situation may ruin Friendship.

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A female reader, shortybabes United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2007):

shortybabes agony auntWell you could start of by sitting her down and telling her that you like her, you could also tell her that you would like to date her but if she doesn't feel the same then you don't want it to effect your friendship with her.

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