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36-40,
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writes:I am 22 yrs old virgin guy.There is a thought that comes to my mind again and again. That is my penis touching a women'svagina and not inserting inside it. whats the difference between both.That makes makes me feel tense all the time. What should I do. Should I have to make sex to get rid of it. And if yes with whom.I dont have a girlfriend and making a girlfriend just for this purpose is stupidity.Besides I cant give other person attention or time when I am so disturbed.So should I pay for sex.Is that okay or just let the thought continue disturbing me and spoil my life. My day starts with finding a solution to this nad ends with no solution.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): If the penis isn't inserted into her vagina, then your virginity is not lost. The act is considered sex when it's actually inserted. The difference between both is pretty obvious, if it's not inside her, it's not sex. But if it is inside, then it's sex! But to your second question, honey, don't pay for sex. Especially when it's your virginity. There's a girl out there for you and she will adore you if you're a virgin. It would be like a bonus. But losing your virginity to a prostitute is not advisable at all, because it's cheap and meaningless. Sex is emmotional as well as physical, and missing out emmotion is missing you half the sex in my opinion. Keep your virginity for someone you love and who loves you back.
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