Should I not move in with the friend of my ex? We are dating and I love him!

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Please help me, Cupid! I have this great boyfriend and his name is Mark. We've been going out for seven months now, and I just thought about this: I'm gonna move in with one of my ex-boyfriend's friends! Thinking about it now, I really don't wanna do that. It seems mean/disrespectful/inconsiderate. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to protect my ex specifically. It's just...How could I have done this to any person at all?! I feel horrible for getting between friends. I don't know why this has suddenly dawned on me, but please help me get rid of this guilt. It's been eating at me today, and I feel so disappointed in myself. What should I do? If anyone suggests breaking up with Mark, please know that I truly think that Mark is "the one". We love almost everything about each other, and if ever we broke up I wouldn't even bother looking for anyone else, because I know that he's the best boyfriend I could ever ask for. So, please don't suggest breaking up with him unless you think it's my only solution. Obviously, I've been pondering this solution, but I really really really don't want to resort to it.

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