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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid (and readers), I really like this guy... but he's really shy... I mean, we have really good chemistry and everything. We like the same things, and we always have really interesting conversations and enjoy each others company, but I don't know if he likes me, and if I should ask him out myself. My friends also say that our possible relationship has real potential if we start dating. He hasn't had a girlfriend since kindgergarten and we're sophomores in college. I don't know if he likes me, or he's just being shy. We're also really good friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship. Should I just wait things out and see what happens, or should I make a move? Thanks a lot!!
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reader, Man-of-questions  +, writes (1 February 2010):
I'd say go for it. I have known many friends who have found love from someone who's been in their life for years.
My cousin for example is now married to a girl who's been his friend since as long as he can remember. Plus, they always say your partner should be your lover and your best friend. So if anything your friendship with him should make it easier in a relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 February 2010):
No, make a move while you have an open chance. If he's a great guy, tell him how you feel and see what he says. It's the only way to be sure.
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