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writes:Hiya uncles and aunts.. Advice me here... Ive been dating this guy for 7months now and things are still great.. Just have a question here... We frim same town but live two diffrent places and we also work at the same company..he has a car so when i get to town i wait for him to pick me up to work.. 2 months ago his car had a problem with a battery n some other thins but he fixed it after bein paid now 2weeks ago the car was smashed on his left hand side and it need to be fixed again.. His mother borrowed him her car and he still busy doin quotations and finding someone or a place where it can be fixed.. He got the quotations and the cheapest was 10 thousand and he asked me to help/borrow him money and said he'll pay me back.. So far i trust him but i jst wanna know dad is it adviseable to borrow a boyfriend money? I really wanna help him.. He never asked me for anything he is always gud with me its just that i dont want to see us fighting because of not paying me back... And he gave me a choice on top of the choice i have ofcourse that if i dont have to give him money i dont feel comfortable.. Any advise wud be appreciated.. Have u ever borrowed ur bf/gf a money close to R3000 and do u think its right to do that especially to someone who u have a romantical relation with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you VSAddicy for bein so straight with me.. I dont want us to fight bcos of money than our relationship.. Thanks again
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (24 July 2011):
 If you have the slightest feeling that you shouldn't, then don't do it. Money and relationships don't mix. Don't feel obligated to give your hard earned money to him because he's with you. People in a relationship always say they'll pay their partner back, but it hardly ever happens. Don't give any money to this guy. You don't know how long you two will last, so why give the money when it could end next month or next week? Don't loan money to your partner/future partners unless you two get married. Hope I helped.
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