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*nly4him
writes:Me and my live in ex boyfriend broke up about a month ago. He has a ex girlfriend whom he was with for 5 years and they have to kids 5 and 6 Now they seem to be best friends and doing everything together. He says hes confused and might want to try again with her. Well we just had a baby (wasnt planned) he is almost two months and my ex goes now to his kids moms house whom she lives with her parents and he stays the night there. He says he loves her etc and we still sleep with each other so its just a big pile of drama, but im giving him his space. He know once they get together the sleeping with eachother will stop between us. Well i someone wish i can bring him closer to me again but its hard when she's the mother of his two kids and are getting along great and wanting to be a family again. and i dont want to turn into a b*** because that will only push him further away... he doesnt bring his kids to our house anymore because he's mainly overthere with thier mom at thier house. So the kids hardly get to see the baby and i don't let him take the baby near his ex , but now im thinking maybe he can take the baby over there so kids can spend some times with him, do ya think this is a good idea or what do ya think?
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reader, cavwils12 +, writes (5 December 2010):
 I have a daughter almost 1 and I am not with her father. I would not personally let him take my baby to some other womans home. I dont care how close they are, I do not know her and I do not care to. They aren't married and if you have sole custody then i suggest you do not let him take your baby over there. You do not know what they are doing or saying for all you know he can be calling his girl the mother of the baby. I am not trying to scare you, but some people are just so disrepectful.
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