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writes:hey there. just though id give a follow up on the last question i asked. dearcupid.org/question/she-said-she-wants-3-days-to-decide.htmli gave my girlfried the space she asked for and then a further 2 weeks to clear the air. we agreed that once the 2 weeks had passed we would start fresh. anyway 2 weeks had passed and when we met up she said that she been thniking abit more about it all and she had decided that now just wasnt the right time for her to have a boyfried. she said that i had done nothing wrong and said that she couldnt have asked for a better boyfriend and that i had to belive her when she said that it wasnt me it was her.we promised that we woulkd talk as friends (which i am more than happy to do). she has been my best friend for 4 years and to loose her forever would be awful for me to deal with. she knows that i still love her to bits and i made it very clear that if she ever wanted to try again, if she just needed help with anything or just someone to talk to that i would always be here for her.i think all this has happend because she just wants to spend more time with her frieds and have more fun (which is something i carnt stop her form doin) i sort of wish she had said it was something i had done just so i could have tried to change her mind. i was lost for words at the time when it happend. and even a week on i still think about her everytime i go to sleep and every time i wake up. there is always something that i see that reminds me off her.do you think that maybe in a couple of months time it would be a wise idea to suggest goin for a drink or dinner just to catch up and perhaps try to and see if we could try again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): I think it's great that you're still staying friends, and maybe leaving it for awhile would be a good plan. Maybe she just needs some time for herself, like you said to spend with her friends and have a good time. After a few months she might have gotten it out of her system and realise what she's missing. Variety is the spice of life, she could just need a little change for awhile. You have to test yourself to see what you can live with, but also what you can't live without.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 October 2009):
No. She's made it clear she dones't want a relationship with you. You've got to respect that and move on, or you'll just end up even more hurt. Sorry, but she doesn't love you.
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