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writes:I like this guy and he has recently confessed that he too has some feelings for me. I have to get into an argument to get him to admit what lies in his heart.My problem is that I started to chat with this other guy I haven't talked to in a long time. We've been sorta flirting, but it's harmless, but I feel like I'm being unfaithful and I feel sorta guilty. Am I wrong? What if the guy I really like keeps being secretive, and keeps me in the shadows about how he feels? Should I keep pursuing him? Or just move on with someone I know who will be open. I really do like this guy more than anything, but now I just feel so confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhy is it that I feel so guilty when it's nothing but a harmless flirt? I know I won't pursue it, and I hope the other guy doesn't have feelings for me. I just can't help myself from saying something witty that looks like I'm flirting and then I end up feeling bad, as if I committed a crime.
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