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anonymous
writes:Hello!Basically I'm 13 and I have had sex with the same guy over 20 times. Is that bad cos if it is then I'm gonna stop doing it but we're madly in love and we're basically going out so I don't know what to do. thanks for the help!x Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): WOW!! 13? You are way too young to be having sex! How much older is this guy than you?i am 17 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been goin out for 5 months and i still do not think we are in love and you think you are "madly in love" with a guy you are "basicly going out" with?well i think the answer to your question is obvious. think about your future and....STOP HAVING SEX!!
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reader, hurtandinlove89  +, writes (30 October 2008):
Girl, stop having sex...its wrong and illegal! and u cant say your in love because you dont know what love is yet. Enjoy being a kid before jumping into those kinds of things ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): no I don't think you should and no I don't think you're too young, I know I'm only 15 but I have different morals than the majority. if you don't want a baby I'd recommend multiple uses of birth control (condoms, the pill, etc.)
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reader, Arlo +, writes (29 October 2008):
 I agree with the first reply. Stop this immediately. You are exposing yourself to so many potential problems here which could be life-changing.
- Do you want to get pregnant? Can you imagine what your life would be like if you had to look after a baby?
- Would you like to see your boyfriend locked up in jail? What he is doing is ILLEGAL.
- Would you like to get a sexually transmitted disease? If you haven't been practicing safe sex (contraception e.g. condoms) then you are massively at risk from contracting a sexual disease. Who knows if your boyfriend has a disease which he may well have passed onto you already? I would suggest that you visit your doctor to get checked out all the same.
- What would your parents think if they knew? I imagine they would be horrified! I myself have a daughter aged 13 and I dread to think how I would feel if I knew that she was having sex.
STOP NOW! PLEASE!
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reader, maddierose  +, writes (29 October 2008):
 Basically going out? Are you going out or aren't you?
Your 13, stop having sex. At your age you are not ready to be facing the consequences of pregnancy if it occours, think about your mum finding out... "When did this happen?" " I don't know mummy it could be one of 20 times.." -- Not a pretty scenario!
Hold of on the sex part until your a little older, having sex at 13 could actually damage your reproductive organs because your body isn't ready to have sex yet.
If this guy dumps you because you won't have sex then your well shot of him! Every guy is madly in love until they come. If he really cares, he'll wait until its legal as he could get into a lot of trouble for having sex with you.
And it might be completely innocent to both of you, and it might be simply that you are actually in love, but try explaining that to the police - let them catch some real criminals yeah? Not your boyfriend because you we're having sex before you we're 16.
UNLESS he's over 17 in which case him having sex with you is sickening...
Hope I've helped?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): no I don't think you should and no I don't think you're too young, I know I'm only 15 but I have different morals than the majority. if you don't want a baby I'd recommend multiple uses of birth control (condoms, the pill, etc.)
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reader, Gary18  +, writes (29 October 2008):
 Whoa! I was ready for it when I was 13, but didn't get the opportunity until i was 16. I need more info to help me answer this question better. How old is this guy? Do you like having sex? Are you 2 having safe sex? Do you feel guilt? I think its very nice that you 2 are in love, love is nice unless it bites you in the ass.
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reader, thelittlemouse +, writes (29 October 2008):
Hello
a) you are 13 so you are illegally having sex
b) if you are unsure of wether or not you should be having sex then you shouldnt be, youre not ready!
If this guy thinks all that much about you then hell wait for you...
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