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writes:I broke up with my ex of 4 years two months ago. We were long distance for 2 years and were very serious about our relationship because we've been through so many difficulties together. We had a huge fight because of his female friends before the breakup. I was mad that he didnt care about how I felt and didn't stand up for me. He told me he needed to cool off and since then he gave me the cold shoulder for at least 3 weeks. I initiated the breakup. What he said was we were apart and it's a very difficult situation and told me to move on without any feelings.I was heartbroken when I heard this, I felt that I was thrown away like garbage. He had no contact with me after the breakup. Two months later, he sent me a message asking me if I have a new boyfriend. I assume it's because he saw the pictures of me and my male friends. He said he can't stand seeing me with other guy so he had to delete me. He also found out that I sent his shirt back to him and it hurt him so much. He explained that he didn't dump me. Why couldn't I wait for him to cool off so that prevent him from doing it? I'm moving on, but I don't know how to cope with this. Do I just ignore him?
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (25 June 2013):
 a Big Yes to the ignorance part! Ignore him until he doubts his own existence.. Simple as that. Ex belongs in the past..it diddnt work out and you cant go back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2013): YES. he left and have given you a cold shoulder, then he would come back as if he cares?
Wrong Move. IGNORE HIM. don't even bother to reply.
remember there's nothing more satisfying than leaving a jerk wondering why their schemes didn't work.
If he made you brokenhearted, its pay back time.
But if you really love him, Give him a chance, and be stupid in the name of love.
Can't do anything about it, when it comes to love, Who's keeping score?
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