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writes:23 years ago I dated a girl for 4 years. We went are separated ways. WE both got Married .Then i got a divorce. We live in different states. She found out about me and came home to visit her family . We got together and i fill back in love. She says the same thing and says when the time is right she is getting a divorce. We talk every day. But it is a 1000 miles away.Should I hope for the best or run?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): RUN unless she ever divorces him. Chances are she won't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): Look first things first, you are single she isnt and as much as you might like to be together, she cant until she figures out waht she wants. She cant play you against him .
You need to be careful, here dont bethe reason she ends her marriage, and equally dont wait around for something that might not happen. Plenty more women out there, dont be scared at all.
Id explain to her that its nice being friends but that you cant pursue a relationship until she decides what she wants and until she does ye will have to remain as just friends. See how she takes that news.
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