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writes:I cheated on my bf. He never found out and now i want to work on the relationship, but i feel it might be too late. What do i do? should i continue, tell him the truth im soo confused. Ive learned from my mistake, im hurting bc i ended the affair and im hurting bc i let my bf down and the relationship die.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the replies!! I really appreciate it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): Some things are best left unsaid. Do you want to appease your conscience and hurt him at the same time? IE, is this for you or for him? If you tell him, don't be surprised if he brings it up when he is angry with you.
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reader, greg290352  +, writes (8 September 2009):
 Hi - Personally I think you need to decide what you want.
If you want to make a go of the relationship I would not say anything about cheating on him. At the same time you need to try and stop torturing yourself about it. Work to make things better for you both and don't let what happened drag you down.
If you tell him then you might feel better that you will be "punished" after a big argument and if he splits up with you but that is not what you want I assume?
Just put the cheating down to experience and learn from what happened.
Good luck :-)
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reader, teiliababy +, writes (8 September 2009):
 don't never let a relationship go if you love this person. try sitting down at talking to him about the situation. everybody makes mistakes at some point int here life. let him know that you messed up and you weren't thinking at the time. tell him that you love him and you would never want anything like this to mess yall up again.
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