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51-59,
*erry1
writes:i am 43, married, but i have always had guys around me. Never have been "alone". Recently got married, but i still have these guys as friends, my husband sometimes treatsme, i feel, as though I am not important to him. I am thinking about having an affair. What should I do?
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 If you really want to be with this other man then sure go ahead have the affair...then go back to your husband and live with the guilt and then a few months down the line your want to do it again and again! Either fix things with your husband or end it with him its only fair on you both, you cant have both!
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reader, perry1 +, writes (4 September 2008):
perry1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both for your replies but things almost always go deeper than that. I do believe that cheating is wrong and hurtful, but I also feel this attraction to this other guy. I just don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): Talk to your husband first,and tell him how you feel.Hope-
fully he'll understand.If he doesn't try to change his ways
in a matter of time that you'd like,then you should get a divorce.Then you can go be with someone else.Cheating on
someone is one of the worst things you can do to a person.
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (4 September 2008):
Talk to your husband first if you truely love him then you dont just give up and have an affair as easy as that. Affairs always end up messy and the one in the relationship usually ends up getting hurt, dont go down that route....dont be selfish you either work at your marriage or get a divorce and then you can see as many men as you like!
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