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Should I go on the pill to be safe?

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Question - (3 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing a guy for a little while, we haven't had sex and don't plan to for quite some time! (I'm really not ready for that...) We have done everything else though. I read somewhere that you can get pregnant by sperm on fingers etc so I was wondering whether I should go on the Pill just to be on the safe side? Or am I just being paranoid?

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A female reader, AngelleMarie United States +, writes (4 June 2010):

You should get on the pill just to be on the safe side... you are not being paranoid youre being safe :)

If you do choose to get on the pill, i wouldnt tell your boyfriend if you feel you might get pressured into sex since theres that protection there.

Just get on them, take them regularly and when the moment feels perfect you can surprise him!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010):

You can indeed, although it's not common it is still possible - if you're not ready to go on to the pill then just make sure to be extra careful, however i'd advise to go on the pill as the pill has benefits other than for contraception purposes and when the time is right you will know you're protected. However, it's completely your choice and just because you're going on the pill does not mean that you're going to have sex so don't think of it that way :) if you do decide to take the contraceptive pill then just remember to follow the instructions and take it properly to ensure protection :) x

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